How do you keep the magic when your body is changing, your hormones are like a yo-yo and your other half is mourning the spontaneous you who didn’t use to plan how to get 10 pillows correctly positioned and be asleep by 8.30pm – only to get up three hours later obsessing about the contents of the hospital bag or when to pack it.

Here are five ways you can be the family that grows together, not the couple that drifts apart: